Around June 2017, I was connected hit from Nyland Jonas on Zoosk website. Asked my to invite him on FB immediately, claimed he had found the perfect woman and was going to de-register from Zoosk immediately. Just won a multi million USD contract through Chevron. Worked on rigs for 28 years Initially very smooth talker, claimed he lived in 22B Houghton Drive, Camps Bay, Cape-Town. He was stuck on the rig as his wallet had been stolen with his bank cards. Asked for money, and more money. Used script on e-mail sent to me. Lots of spelling errors, evasive when asked direct questions, claimed his cell phone couldn't take photos. Unfortunately, I have earned the hard way. I am an honest, well educated, hard working woman in her 50's Scripted message he sent me: I would like to say that i'm very happy to write to someone and share more of me as i so wish this friendship put us both in our happy place soon Sandy, you chat so beautiful on fb and i had to take a few time off to mail you... I guess you should truly know who i am as you have shared much of you than i expected and i deeply sincerely appreciate all you wrote to me and just so you know i am so keen to be close to you and see where life lead for us as you are such a fine lady i wont mind to make a friend and see such friendship develop into something sweet that we both can hold on to, I don't really know how this is to work, but hey! If at my age i do not know what and when to say, then what would i be? When a wise man sees he has probably spent about half of his time in life already, he begins to assess his main goals in life. What could be more important than a happy ending? A man needs to live his life full of joy and happiness. No matter his achievements, he is reduced to nothing if he has no crown to complete him and that is a woman to call his own. Wife and Best friend. A woman who knows that even while arguing they still need to hold hands. A woman whom i can call a partner in crime, lol A woman whom you can tell anything. How could you think anything can make you happier in life than finding love that knows no bound. To make you know more about me,. I will break this down to segments and it would be like a case study... Marriage gave me a beautiful daughter her name is ZARA 21yrs and shes all i have and am not sure i will need more kids, but i can accept my spouse family as mine any such time it calls for... Well I must say you are wonderful and I will really want to know more about you each step of the way, i had the opportunity to find a soul mate once but death took her away from me 15 years ago, i remarried and got divorced 4years now. I am alone with one great daughter and I am ready to trade in the path of relationship again, you will agree with me that there is nothing to compare love and the sweetness it brings. I do basically rig constructions and renovations. We have worked at many countries across the globe. The present project is my last on the field and i shall quit field works and continue my works from my home office while my men do the field. I think i really have gotten to this height cos i embraced work for so long trying to get over my ex, that i worked this hard, but i think i now realize i can move on. MY DREAM I have told you how my typical dream day would be like, i just want to spend the rest of my life enjoying the fruit of my labor. I just want a woman who would be my best friend and everything. You know someone whom we would still love each other more as the days pass by, even when we cant make love anymore and all we could do is play bingo, LOL. MY PASSION Despite the separation from my ex I still know how to love, I know I can still love again because I still have burning desire for love and affection, I know how to treat a woman right that was the reason I had a well relationship with her. I am not a saint but you should not let your bad side overshadow your good part, we all have bad and good side, but I am more on a good sided than the bad side. I think I would stop here and tell you about my likes and dislikes. I like the gathering of Christian brothers and sisters as we get to encourage and build our spiritual life. I play Basketball and Golf. I love being with gentle hearten people that takes life easy with a right vision of what the future holds for them, ones that are sincere with an attitude of self-control. I hate liars, cheaters and self-centered ones. I don't like people that feel they are far superior to other, with a spirit of pride in them. I have no tattoo. I love the sound of thunder storm but they also scare me when I'm alone, lol. I hate being idle. I don't tell lies. My favorite color is Red and Black. My favorite food is hard to decide because I love most foods. I usually go eat Mexican or Italian if I'm going out to dinner, or steak. I love to cook. I'd love for someone to cook with me or for me. I love the mountains. I enjoy yard work, only mowing the yard is my least favorite chore with regards to the outdoors, did i mention i love football? Chocolate is my favorite treat, I love flowers. They all smell so beautiful and sweet. I love to snuggle up and watch a movie, When I love a woman, I love her with all of my heart and soul, I want to love someone so much that it hurts when she's not around me, I love God and all He brings to my life. I have lots to offer someone in the way of love, support and tenderness, I love the smell of freshly mowed grass. I am afraid of heights. I love to fly though... I enjoy going to the movies, I enjoy going somewhere just to sit and people watch and I enjoy spending much time at the fireplace late at night. I love to sing, and dance. Some people come with so many flattering words of love but how true are they with their stories of love? Some time I wonder where this world is going to, we have so many deceitful people out there looking for whom to hurt emotionally and all that adding to the already inflicted heart, well I really wonder if love still exist. I am still going with the faith of God that says there is man for every woman and there is a woman for every man, but that Mrs. Right is all I am still looking for now in life. I am a total package and i only need someone who understands the value of a good smile. I cant wait to hear back from you. Nyland Most probably identity fraud 0 Votes I'M THE PRESIDENT AND FOUNDER OF THE DISABLED DISCOUNTS PROJECT THAT HELPS THE DISABLED AND VETERANS AND WAS SCAMMED OUT OF THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS FROM A SCAMMER FROM YOUR DATING SITE THAT SHE USE'S AND MATCH. HER NAME IS SHARON SMITH HER E MAIL IS Sharon102222smith yahoo.