Facebook Twitter Google+ Pinterest LinkedIn 98 Shares After a break up, many people feel the need or the desire to get over their ex quickly. Many people feel that having a rebound is simply the best method for getting over an ex. You see, after a breakup, you need to feel the loss of the other person, you need to mourn the relationship, and you need to heal and work on yourself. Being emotionally available is imperative when hoping to start something new. You need to have an open heart, an open mind, and you need to be willing to let your guard down so that you can fall in love with someone. As well, they almost always have some form of emotional wall or protective barrier up to guard themselves from feeling anything that would resemble sincere and genuine emotions, and in the process, they usually end up causing others pain. This is one of the biggest reasons that it takes someone so long to find someone who they really like after a breakup. You see, many times people end up dating very quickly after a breakup, and perhaps even using people or having rebounds. And in the process, they see that those relationships or those dates never really lead to serious, long-term, or meaningful relationships where they shared connections on many different levels with someone. There are many people that think the only way to get over someone is to date other people very quickly and to simply put themselves out there. And although on some level, I agree with that, there must be enough healing time before you do so. Otherwise, you might start viewing things differently, distorted even, and you might pass up on that one special someone who could be your best possible match, and simply because you put yourself out there before you were ready. And now you end up hurting this amazing, incredible person in the process? Remember, giving yourself enough time to heal is part of going through a breakup. But I also believe that in life, and we need to take care of ourselves first and foremost. We need to be whole as a person, healed, and be willing to give someone new a blank, clean, fresh slate. Every new person that you date, and every new relationship that you explore deserves to have a clean slate. As far as how much time it takes to heal, it simply depends on the person, as well as on how much time they spent together, how close they felt to one another, and what they experienced within their relationship. It simply depends on the person and the situation at the end of the day. Give yourself a break, and let yourself become whole again, before you put yourself out there. Anyone can move on quickly from a relationship if they want to. Anne Cohen is a lifestyle and relationship blogger based in Los Angeles, CA. Her blogs are Anne Cohen and ACW Anne Cohen Writes. She contributes to various publications including The Huffington Post, Elite Daily, and many more. She's passionate about love, writing, chess, and more than anything, her two kids. Many people have wrote articles of how they were helped by a spell caster but I am very grateful to this very great spell caster who brought my ex husband back to me. This testimony is a true story and my name is Jennifer Sanchez. When i came in contact with this man was also through a testimony written about him and i have also encountered many testimonies about how he has been helping others with their life. To get back with an ex is one of the most inner most feeling many people would love to experience especially as those memories with our ex always cloud our mind when someone else does some of those things our ex used to do. I was a single parent for almost 6 years and though my ex husband was far away from my kids i still wish someday he will return back to me. This spell doctor i encountered known as Doctor Odunga helped me with my wishes and i am happy to say that i am back with my ex husband and i am very happy sharing the testimony with everyone so that they too can meet this great doctor and solve their problems. If you want to successfully get back with your ex, contact this great spell caster at odungaspelltemple gmail. My boyfriend of 2yrs broke up with me coz we were arguing a lot and not getting along and I was already 30 weeks pregnant. After the break up I kept ringing him and telling him I will change. He texts me now and then mainly to check up on how I was with the pregnancy. I was really upset and needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that Dr. Philip can help solve marital problems, restore broken relationships and so on. I contacted his email address drphilipspelltemple gmail. Welcome to Anne Cohen Writes! Anne Cohen is the founder, owner, editor, and writer at ACW Anne Cohen Writes. She was born in Chicago, IL, and is now based in Los Angeles, CA. Anne also does SEO, SMM, and is the Marketing Director for various companies. Welcome to her blog! About ACW Subscribe to Anne Cohen Writes You have to risk getting hurt in order to fall in love. Get Featured on Doctor's Journal! A place for medical professionals to write articles and freely express their thoughts. Writing on ACW gives possible future patients a chance to get to know doctors on a deeper level, shedding some light onto their personality.